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What is love?

2007-07-24T06:30:00.000-07:00

I was up in genting on sat with few of my buddies..we were having a drink at starbucks talking about lifes, politics , girls , cars and all the usual guy stuff hehehe....than a friend brought up this question asking us..." What is love" basically he was asking how to show someone your interested and when you know your in love..well we have a really long debate on this topic..

The purpose i posting this up is that i wanna share my point of view and my so called "TIPS" on what you should do ...

How to approach someone you had a crush on.

Always remember to create opportunities for you to see each other ..This might include secretly waiting in the hall or sitting near him/her at lunch and try not to act weird when doing so cause they might think your some sort of maniac stalker ROFL.

Remember to make eye contact and put on a great smile.

When you pass by him/her always remember to say " HI "..

Try get to know some of his/her friends.They might come in handy *wink*

Ask him/her about something you know she/he is interested in and you must have the same interest too.

If you wanna start a conversation remember to choose the right topic.

Lastly. Don't set yourself up to get hurt, make sure you haven't put your entire self-worth into whether or not she/he responds to your signals.

If you think your in love and you want to know if what you're feeling is the real deal. Try asking yourself these questions.

Would you be willing to let him/her go if you believed it was the best thing ?

Are you willing to wait for this person if she/he is not ready for sex?

Will you sacrifice your dreams to allow his/her dreams to come true?

Do you respect or admire him/her?

Would you feel the same way if she/he fallen ill?

Will you feel the same way if s/he gained weight ?

If you answered "NO" to any of these questions, try asking yourself ; Is it a lack of trust? Is it because you're afraid? Is it to selfishness or Do you need more time to get to know each other ?

If your answered "YES" to all of these questions, Yahoo!!, you feel very strongly about this person ..cause you're IN LOVE :D...

Signs that your crush may be the right one.

You can't help but smile when you see her/him and they always smiling back.

You feel so comfortable and secure in the relationship and really trust your partner.

There will be good times and bad times and trough, or in spite of , them all you have remained together.

There are no major dramas in the relationship.

You each do kind and thoughtful things for each other.

There is no violence in the relationship at all i mean NONE !

You enhance one another , neither one of you presses the other to do things that may leads to harm one another.

There is no sacrifice and only compromise.

Sex or no sex..It doesn't really matter , either way it isn't an issue and nobody has been pressured to do something they weren't ready to do.

You know that everything you feel is returned in kind by your partner.

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If you're wondering if you're in love , this often because you might base a decision on your answer.,Be very careful! Decisions should not be based just on the feeling of " LOVE" . You should also look at respect, commitment and trust in a relationship. Try asking yourself what it means to you if you believe you're really in love...Don't put pressure on yourself to define what you're feeling as love...and don't let anyone else pressure you either.

Remember the idea of love is romantic but unrealistic..take it slow and steady don't need to rush things at all . Every relationship will have something important to offer you and none, no matter how painfully they may end don't be depress over it cause each relationships will teach you a valunable lesson about yourself , your capacity to love and what you are looking for ( and not looking for) in a partner.

Word of advice..Open your heart to the idea of loving more than one person in your life ( Not asking those already in a relationship to go cheating on your partner =P )

Hope you guys enjoy reading it ..just some of my personal point of view and facts..

Everytime

2007-07-20T10:44:00.000-07:00

Just some random rubbish post~ Enjoy~

Everytime I clean me room, I make another mess

Everytime I miss the bus, I am late for a test

Everytime I’m reincarnated, it's in the lowest form

Everytime I leave my window open every time there is a storm

Everytime I have a hangover, I have to go to work

Everytime I masturbate dry, it tends to hurt

Everytime I pat a dog, it bites me on the hand

Everytime I talk to aliens, they don’t understand

Everytime I skate, I get another bruise

Everytime I get drunk, I vomit on my shoes

Everytime I drink milk, it comes out in lumps

Everytime I catch the bus, there is no where to sit

Everytime I catch a train, Im hassled for a ticket

Everytime I bat in cricket, 1st ball takes a wicket

Everytime I’m drunk at a party in a toga, I pull a damn hamstring to prove I do yoga

Everytime I eat, I get a pain in my chest

Everytime I make a call, call waiting interrupts

Everytime I dump a load at someone’s house, it won’t flush

Everytime it won’t flush, it stains the ceramic

Everytime If you ever see me happy it because I’m manic

Everytime I give advice, it comes out wrong

Everytime I skip sport, I get drilled by the coach But every time I play footy, I get tackled in the dirt And I crack another rib and it really fuckin hurts

Everytime I brush my teeth, I find another cavity

Everytime I try to fly, I discover gravity

Everytime I have a craving, I run out of food

Everytime we spin the bottle, I’m the 1 who ends up nude

Everytime I give a girl an orgasm, she fakes

Everytime I jam it in, the condom breaks

Everytime I gamble, I lose all my chips

Everytime I write a song, radio stations ban it Cause when you play my records in reverse they’re spastic

Everytime I make a joke, people take me serious

Everytime I drive a car, a cop will pull me over But I say I’m someone else and that I’m sober

Everytime I go for blind date turns out to be blind My looks are all I have and that is why I mind

Everytime I have the dream where I’m at the school dance and Everyone is looking at me cause I don’t have any pants

Everytime I see a killer bee, It’s when i'm gettin stung

Everytime I play scrabble, I make the word “At" Every wet fart, leaves a stain where I sat

Everytime I catch a wave, I hit a coral reef ..

You Never Know Until You Try It

2007-07-19T10:07:00.000-07:00

I always think people spent too much time talking about their hopes and dreams. Beginning every sentence with "I wish" just don't cut it anymore. Yes living in a dream can be very satisfying (I, of all people would know this), but there will come to a point where you just say, "Is dreaming all I can do?" That's when you know you need to try a little harder by persevering a little harder. Ok, maybe a lot, because this is the chance to do it, when you are still in that drive-mode.

I did that this year with one dream. It has been an amazing experience, but there are cons to it. When you expect yourself to do so much better than you could, you only pressure yourself onto the dream making it so hard to breath, especially when you are so passionate to make it right. Anger strikes when I get criticised for things I know I should have known. That anger makes me give up. But is it worth it, I always ask myself. Do I want to keep on pushing myself and hopefully one day I will be fine, or do I give it up so I won't be such a troublemaker making them and myself feel so bad, resulting me sound like a loser?

I have myself to blame. I thought I had work hard enough, but yet, I am not. Possibly too caught up chasing dreams that I forgot the base.

Now I am torn. I know I should lift my head up and know things will be better, but there's an evil part of me wanting to be the weak guy and say goodbye to it, to take off one burden off my shoulder. Even when I actually do enjoy the burden. The adrenaline rush drives me to push harder.

Better than being a loser definitely. Nobody said it was easy, right? Ok I shall go on like that Celine Dion song.